I had an appointment with Rita Mirchandani at the Bupa Dental Centre in Woking (Guildford Road), which was scheduled for 11:45 on 29 October 2025. Unfortunately, this was my first appointment with Rita, and it will also be my last. She arrived approximately 25 minutes late and did not acknowledge or apologise for the delay.
For a dentist with over 20 years of experience, the professionalism was shocking. I have never experienced this level of service from any NHS dentist or other medical professional. One would expect that, as a private patient, the standard of care and professionalism would be higher; unfortunately, that was not my experience. While Rita claims to care about her patients, her behaviour suggested otherwise.
Prior to attending this practice, I had been treated by another local NHS dentist. Rita questioned previous dental work I had received and made negative comments about it. While she is entitled to her professional opinion, such feedback should be delivered professionally and respectfully. When she suggested I undergo further dental work, I politely explained that I might seek a second opinion or return to my original dentist as the work that was being suggested was linked to the previous dental work. She sighed and rudely said, “I don’t like when patients want to get a second opinion. Get one dentist and stick to them.” I am fully entitled to seek a second opinion to make an informed decision. I understand that different dentists may have differing perspectives, but I wanted to be confident in my decision before proceeding, particularly as the proposed treatment cost over £1,000. No patient should feel pressured into making a decision of this magnitude. At one point during the appointment, while explaining where to buy certain dental items, I mentioned that I’d get them elsewhere as they are products that are sold by many retailers, she responded, “I couldn’t give a monkey’s about where you buy them from.” How is it acceptable for you to provide a service and speak to patients like that? As an adult, why am I being spoken to like I am a child? The patronizing comments and condescending behavior throughout the appointment were unnecessary. I really don’t think anyone, especially in the medical field, should speak to patients like that. I hope for her current and future patients’ sake, it was just an off day, but either way, it doesn’t excuse rudeness or unprofessionalism, especially as half of a dentist’s job is making patients feel comfortable.
Overall, I found the appointment to be unprofessional, patronising, and uncomfortable. I hope this feedback is taken seriously to ensure that current and future patients are treated with the respect and professionalism they deserve.
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