I have no doubt that Stephen is very experienced in his line of work, there is however, something I feel necessary to bring attention to with regards to anyone suffering as I have been. This is not a slight against Stephen or the practice, but is meant to help and inform others also searching/suffering.
In dental terms, there is a term called Phantom Bite Syndrome, in which a patient will become hypersensitive to their bite, occlusion and become an issue for dentists to handle. Many simply refuse to handle these patients, or believe it's impossible for their occlusion to cause such woes as the patient experiences. They blame their suffering on psychiatry, rather than the direct cause (occlusion). Picture these patients as having a red neon sign over their heads titled: DANGER INCOMING. You won't be far from the reality, and you are classed as this quite quickly dependent on how you present.
I had no idea when I went for my consult that I fit this description (anxious, prev treatment, pain with bite etc), but now understand that I very likely was due to the manner in which I was handled and spoken to. Which, being honest, I found patronizing, labelling, stereotyping, and rude in parts. Before we embarked on a journey to fix the bite, mental health related therapy (psychotherapy of sorts) was pushed (yes, pushed) upon me, and because I knew this was not the cause of my discomfort, I refused, and Stephen's attitude towards the success of the treatment plummeted, our journey ended there.
I did, however, find someone in Manchester willing to help me without placing labels or stereotypes upon me, who has experience in prosthodontics (which is advanced dental study into the bite, implants and the like) and TMJ, and who from the moment I sat down allowed me to explain fully and completely my journey thus-far. He spoke to me like an individual rather than a cluster of labels, and he understood immediately where the discomfort came from, and we're now in the process of fixing it. I have seen improvements already, though it is a journey with an open bite as complex as mine following bad orthodontics. It will take time, but my new dentist is more than willing to take that time with me. Phantom Bite Syndrome is something my new dentist actively rejects, he doesn't remotely see me as having any mental disorder, and the intrusive questions Stephen asked on my mental health/the assumptions made - were never ever touched. PBS is a perfect way of blaming the patient from the get-go so that if the treatment doesn't work as planned, the patient can be easily moved on (to therapy etc), so as to not take anymore of the dentists time. (Time is money.)
If you are suffering with your bite, just know there is hope out there, I am getting better and trust my new dentist will fix it completely. Don't give up, I write this review as a lighthouse as I know how many out there like me will read it looking for reassurance that you will be able to rest your mouth in comfort again/eat freely/lose the headaches etc etc. You will. And no, you're not mad.
EDIT for the sake of people reading, January 2025: I just want to update that I did eventually get the problem fixed with a patient, kind and lovely private dentist in central Manchester - I needed multiple moulds, I had multiple bits and pieces of work done, and it took a great deal of patience on both my dentist's and my end to get to the final result - which was, finally, teeth that met together, no longer clashing during rest, it's now been months and months since the final crown was fitted and I am so much better now. My bite may never be exactly the same as it was once, but I can now chew things comfortably without a headache, I can close my mouth together in comfort without bursting into tears, and there's no longer random teeth hurting when they were too high when I chew - as now they're not. All the hogwash I feel I was met with about it being some kind of mental phenomenon/phantom bite was utterly rubbish. It was my teeth all along.
Follow Us